As I sit here at my desk, working, I wonder to myself. Why do people ask what would you prefer if they are just going to ignore your preference anyways. That is one of my ultimate pet peeves. Seriously though, why f***ing bother???
I don’t think it’s cool to ask for ones input and inflate their expectations if in the end, you’re not going to even put their thoughts or wishes under consideration.
I think it would be best and do the favour of not doing me any favours. Don’t ask, and there won’t be a problem.